Ok so I need somewhere 2 vent me and my boyfriend has been together a little over a year and were expecting a daughter in 52 days he wanted me 2 have his baby he has 2 older boys 14 and 9 and wanted 2 try for a girl even though I told him I wasn't ready 2 have a baby he pretty much got me prego on purpose I don't have any kids besides the 1 I'm cooking and he's 36 and I'm 26 so there is a age gap but in the beginning he was perfect so nice so sweet now it sucks and he acts like its a problem 2 hand me a water or 2 get his own drink he basically forced me 2 be a stay at home mom 2 his other 2 kids which he has custody of they live with us and I want 2 work but say that him and the boys need me home 2 help them out you know the usual take them 2 school cook clean homework sports practice and so on i hate it I have never been a stay at home kind of person but I did it because that was what was needed supposedly and like a few months ago I found out he was seeing his ex behind my back the ex he thought I should be friends with hahaha go figure right so I told him I will not be with a liar or cheater that if I can't trust u I don't want u and he promised and begged for me 2 stay saying he would never talk 2 her again now fast forward 2 2night I look through his phone cause I had a funny felling plus his kids told me he was talking 2 her at the store so i wanted 2 see if he was still seeing and texting her and sure enough yes he is and he's the 1 being extra coming on 2 her and asking for head and all that he also had naked pics from 1 of his sons moms from last month like really im taking care of y'alls kid and that what you do wow I'm nust so done so tired of doing and dealing with his messes all I ask is 2 be treated the way I treat him and 4 him 2 respect me i even told him I wouldn't keep his daughter away from him that he could see her whenever and tbat was last time it happened and he talking bout getting married he's crazy and asleep lol and has no idea I know what he's been up 2 yet I am going 2 wait a day or 2 so thay i can calm down and make good decisions for me and our daughter not rash ones out of anger but I would love 2 slap him awake and cuss him out lmao and I took pics of all the evidence so he couldn't delete it off his phone and saying crazy so can some1 please help with any advise or questions or help u might have thanks