I am not sure what’s going on or why I have been feeling the way I have.

My husband provides in terms of working and bringing home the necessary money to make us comfortable.

I have a full time job as a program manager and he has a full time job managing agricultural projects.

Today I decided to come to my sisters for the night because I’m just so saddened by his actions.

He never makes time for our son and myself. He prioritizes work and wants to sleep anytime he can.

He will make time to go to the bars with his friends for a social beer or going up to ride his outdoor toys. But when it comes to family we are always last on his schedule.

He claims I overreact but I’m the one who cleans, cooks, works full time, does every extra curricular with our son and he is always too busy or tired 😓

Im also 17 weeks pregnant. And he tends to say every action I do is because of my “hormones.”

We go to marriage counseling and even our therapist shared that our main issue is the fact that I pick up the slack and he is comfortable not doing anything because he thinks I won’t leave.

At this point I’m not sure if he wants a marriage. I can’t teach him how to be a husband or father.

Can anyone relate and what helped or did it end in a divorce?