Please, no hate. I do not mean this in any hurtful way. It is an inward struggle for me.

I feel like I need long hair to be sexy. Long hair is so beautiful and I hate that I feel like it is part of what makes women beautiful. It's my own personal thing. Short hair is BA and/or cute. But long hair is beautiful.

I think women with short hair are drop dead gorgeous. I can name some I know personally. But I was at my skinniest when I had my long hair. Since then, I have gained 60 pounds and chopped it all off and gotten pregnant. And so I struggle so much with this concept. I felt so much better when I was healthier and had long hair, I was so much more confident but never grasped it. I wish I had embraced that confidence.