Expectation.

So I was talking at family dinner that if I ever had twins I would still expect some help from my husband. We decided whenever I was to have kids I would not work. My Fil, told me that no he should not have to help at all because he makes the money an I choose to stay home with the kids, an if I needed help I would have to do it on my own as I would do it during the day. Now, that is true but I feel like with twins it is obviously harder especially during the night.I do have twins on both sides of my family also, I was a twin myself but it died in the womb early on.Please let me know your opinions!