Embarrassed about not having any idea how to give head or a hand job

I just need tips. I literally almost cried bc I was so embarrassed that I had no experience with giving head or a hand job. A little back story: started dating this senior and we both are virgins. I was surprised to find out about a month ago that he has had no experience with kissing either. So needless to say we both have no flipping idea what to do with oral sex. I just want to not feel so clueless I would like to show him a good time, you know? Just some tips on how to give him a good time. (Don’t think that he’s pushing it at all, I’m probably the one pushing it) (he likes it and wants it but I didn’t want him to sound like a jack ass or anything) ps: sorry if this all is confusing