What does it mean? Is he sending a message?

Andrea

My boyfriend and I’ve been together for almost two years and we moved in short after that. Things have been you know a roller coaster but I would like to think we are committed I am and I love the guy very much. I want to be with him.

We’ve had some issues in the past like fights and all that to the point of him kinda breaking up with me twice the issues for the breakup we’re that we fight too much so that’s the issue to fix.

A few months ago our bed broke so we had to sleep in an air mattress soon after that we decided to change the furniture and we spent a few weeks sleeping there with no couch or bed so it got pretty close the air mattress was the only place to be.

I’m the past I’ve mention how I would like for him to be more involved in the kitchen and the cleaning since I don’t want to be that type of girlfriend who does everything we both work we should be able to bring the same to the table.

This weekend he started making plans and whatever bring people to the house all that and I’m in finals from school so I kinda ask for a relax weekend just relax since things have been tense and the furniture was coming so everything arrived the new couch and bed all good so everything gets set up all good. All of a sudden he changes like moon and sun completely changes personalities it’s just weird he says not but I notice, he’s super sweet and we have sweet moments but he changed.

He started to workout which good for him I have nothing against that and whatever but he is cold now I just to make the breakfast for both now he just made for him and make himself lunch when I just to make for him and for me! For the both of us but now he’s just doing things for him. I call him and he just to ya yes babe now is like hey what’s up I want to smooth things out I asked what was happening since I don’t want to breakup I really don’t I want to make this work. He said that’s were done nothing is happening all good when I say I love you he says it back but he’s very cold I call him and he avoids me, he’s been avoiding me in our own home, he also mention that he started his responsabilidad things that I suggested like cooking and helping with the cleaning. And sex we haven’t had since almost a week ago.

I want to make this work but is he sending a message it’s been just two days. Should I just let things run it’s course act like it’s fine and he’ll go back to normal? Or does these mean we’re going for the break? I don’t know Since lately that has been the drama around here I feel every subtle change is a breakup he again says we’re fine but he calls me by my name and it’s been very individual so I don’t know about that.

We kinda just got back to normal with our furniture and apartment we are going back to normal but he’s acting this way so it’s not normal.

What should I do ? Act ok like it’s fine nothing is happening and do things individually like him because we’ve never done that before but I don’t know now.

Thoughts? What’s does this mean? Please help my head is spinning on this all weekend very sad I’m very sad don’t know what to do.

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