Sex isn’t good anymore!!

I LOVE my boyfriend and I wouldn’t want to be with anyone else ! We’ve been together for 5 years but the sex isn’t good anymore. I get horny and want some DICK 😂 but when we fuck I’m just soooooo dry. Not even kidding I can’t get wet anymore.... it’s to the point where we have to keep using his or my saliva or else everything hurts because of the dryness. Especially when we use condoms it’s just soooo dry and boring. I’ve tried all types of lubes and no matter what kind we get, it ends up drying after a while and being sticky and back to me being dry 🤦🏻‍♀️ he gets upset because he says he knows I’m not into it and he doesn’t like the fact that he can’t get me horny.... the thing is I am horny for HIM! And he knows how to fuck it’s just ME ! I CANT GET WET ANYMORE. He has good tongue game but I don’t want to stick to just oral sex. I need to be pleased 😒 any tips , tricks and advice ?