Abusive father ?

Well my father has anger issues and well he’s said some nasty things to me since I was well 7 years old I’m 14 now and he still does it.

From 7 to 10 years old he would slap me for no reason I would just be like you know acting like a child and he’d explode out of nowhere…

When I turned eleven it was more like mental I guess he just called me useless an idiot a moron whatever sometimes he was the best dad and then he could also be a monster

When I turned 12 I realized that I wasn’t always wrong I was well … right !

So I started talking back to him when he wasn’t being fair my mother took his side of corse and I was alone she would and still does tell me that I’m impolite but he just hurts me

And treats me wrong !

Like today I was messing around and I didn’t want to carry the grocery bags so I dragged some on the floor tags innocent it’s nothing right ?

I have back problems and they were too heavy and he knows it and then out of nowhere he EXPLODES and tells me I’m an incompetent ignorant and spoiled child and that I’m not helping my parents or whatever!

He knows that I have sever back problems tho .

I’m in my room now because he told me to stay there because he didn’t want to see the likes of me …

Is this abusive ?

Is it normal that he just randomly talks to me this way ?

Am I wrong ?

Update he just got into my room told me that I was well a lazy idiot and that I did nothing to help around the house he was very angry at me when I said okay sure he screamed at me and shut me up so yay I love living in this house with this adoring father .

I can’t take it anymore ,

because if he is indeed abusive and I’m not overreacting I want to contact the authorities and get him as far away as possible.