Since when?!

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My son is almost 2 and I'm now 34 weeks with my second which is a little girl! And every single time I tell people they always comment that we shouldn't have anymore babies, and have my husband snipped. We dont know if we want more kids yet and frankly I dont think its anyone's business but mine and my husbands... and I don't know if it is my hormones but I get so offended and annoyed. Since when is it ok for random people to have so many opinions... gr. 😒

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You should tell them that their dads should have been snipped before having them, but unfortunately here we are. 💁🏻‍♀️

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We just can’t win I’m pregnant my 1st  at 40 it took 5 years, lots of heartache plus I nearly bleed to death with a ruptured Ectopic. People now seem obsessed with the idea of siblings. I have no intention of having a second baby no way never!! After everything I have been through I just count my luck starts from this baby. I even got call selfish for leaving her as a only child. Why can’t people just kind their own business. If you want one child or ten it’s really no one concern.

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It's SO funny! You can never win, right? I'm pregnant with my 3rd boy, and people always assume we are going to have babies upon babies until we have a girl. Yes, we are going to try to have one more baby, that's in our cards we think, but that is it, I can't imagine the comments if #4 is a boy, too. 🤔😒 They will just be awful! 
I agree with another poster, it's probably because you've had one of each, and people assume that's the end of the rodeo, which is a very dumb thing to assume. Lots of people want a big family. 
I try and ignore people like that, or I would go insane!

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Im on my third girl ppl act so sad for us and we should give up and not try anymore because we will probably have another girl. I love my girls and ppl can bite me. My mom even makes my dad tell me its time to be done like wth they dont pay our bills.

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Wtf!? I bet it's because they're trying to say that now you'll have one of each, there's no need for any more. A lot of people I know are like this 🙄😒 mostly older people. I'm pregnant with #3 and it's a boy after 2 girls so people feel the need to say this shit to me as well. I know I'm on #3 but uhh..what if we were going for a fourth!? It's just rude..and people need to keep that to themselves.

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I've been getting slack for the opposite! I have a 2 year old boy baby #2 is a girl and we are done having kids. I'm getting my tubes tied and everyone is like "are you sure??" "What if you change your mind?" "But you only have two!?" 
No matter what people will talk🤷‍♀️ 
It's yours and your SO desicion and that's all that matters 😊

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Lol people are so dumb. You should see the looks I get when I tell them that if it were up to my husband we’d have 8-10 so 4 is our minimum 😂.. if we can take care of them and afford them why does it matter if we have more than 2? It’s not like we’re asking them to take on a kid or 2 🤷🏻‍♀️

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After two kids?  Okayyyyyy. That’s just rude. I am pregnant with number 5, and can’t be more excited to bring her in this world. In fact, very impatient. 😂. I don’t get that comment ever, hmmm. Have two, three, five, seven.  Have as many as you like and can physically and mentally care for. Please don’t have us taxpayers do it!  Not saying you do.  We support all of ours and will continue.

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Can’t win! I had a lady ask me what the gender of this baby is while I was out shopping with my 4 year old son and I said “it’s another boy” 
She seriously said “aw, that’s a shame. Girls are much more fun!” And walked away. Excuse you?!? I’ve also had numerous people ask if we’re going to try for a girl after this. 🤦🏽‍♀️

Since when?!

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