Burning/stinging during sex??

So I know I should see my gyno and I have an appointment July 17th (she’s pretty booked) and I just want to know if anyone has any experience with this in the meantime. So it’s been a few months now where sex has just been painful every single time with my boyfriend because it HURTS every time he sticks it in. It feels like my hymen is being torn every single time we have sex :( it hurts during the sex also and don’t even get me started on the pain after, when I pee! It burns SO much when I pee after sex I cry sometimes. It’s feels so raw and like I have cuts in my vagina. This used to just happen sometimes due to lack of lubrication but now it’s happening every time.

Before you say I need lube it’s not that, we’ve even bought lube and it didn’t help :( has anyone had this issue before?

I’m thinking maybe I have a yeast infection that I never took care of? Maybe i just feel it during sex? I’ve never had this problem before it just started a few months ago 😭 please let me know.. This is really taking a toll on our relationship because he feels like it’s me not getting wet enough and that maybe I’m not attracted to him but it’s not that! There’s def something wrong with me