Diva/Pixie Cup postpartum

I’m 7 weeks postpartum and having trouble finding something that will work. I cannot stand to wear pads anymore but I’m leaking around tampons and the cups are ok but are sliding down further than I’m used to as they fill up :/

I’m having a lot of confidence issues about how lax my vagina must be along with annoyance at not being able to control this crazy period I’m having comfortably.

I’ve had two kids now, the first birth was awful but this one was easy so I wasn’t expecting problems this time around.

Will this get better? Any other suggestions? I remember feeling discouraged last time around about “bouncing back” but I’m just a mess right now trying to pull myself together.