Dont know how to feel, rant.

So I got my IUD in November. In February I found out I miscarried at about 6 weeks, and bled for about a week and a half then spotted for another week. They said I must have been pregnant early on, so early the urine test didnt pick it up. And the insertion of the IUD is what caused my MC . Well last week I took 3 test, cause I've just felt drained and exhausted, and nauseous and got all positives. And this morning. I started bleeding. Super heavily. I didnt tell my husband about the positive test cause he dosnt want another kid. We have 2 already. I'm freaking out internally cause I have no insurance since we hot married and it breaks my heart to think we've lost another child cause of my IUD.. I really want it taken out since it's not doing its job anyways ...