6 1/2 weeks and not feeling very desirable

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Acne on the rampage, gaining weight in bad places, bloated belly, hot flashes, just not feeling very sexy. When hubby and I do have sex we have to be careful and not go to deep because I start cramping. I feel like I’m not pleasing him enough. I need some ideas!! I just wanna feel super close to him and make him super happy