So I decided to leave my husband after he got physical with me. Besides the physical part, he also continued to talk to/ mess with other women out entire marriage ( which was only for a year) I never had proof that he was sexual with another women but talking to and flirting was enough for me. Specially because we were only married for 1 year! And he cheated on me before I even decided to marry him smh.

So basically, even though he was a crappy husband and hurt me I still feel bad, like I’m quitting on my marriage 😪 but why? I feel like I’m the bad guy for leaving and I don’t know how to get over this feeling. I didn’t even go to his higher ups about the physical abuse because I didn’t want to hurt him ! He’s been writing me basically telling me I’m quitting on our relationship and it’s really taking a toll on me.