Can someone tell me what’s wrong with me?

Question

In my last relationship my ex strung me along with the idea of marriage but ended up cheating and having multiple women he cheated on me with. 
All the while I would believe him and just hang on tight thinking oh if I just support him and just ignore the slights and red flags he’d marry me? 
This went on for years. I knew I had to leave but I didn’t notice he was stringing me along with the marriage part so I’d stay . 
Fast forward to my new relationship with this guy for 2 months and for some reason I’m expecting us to get married soon which I know is beyond ridiculous I’ve only known him for two months and for some reason I have this idea in my head that we will get married. 
What’s wrong with me??? It’s like I wanna get married so badly . I really wanna stop thinking this .

Answer

It seems to me that you just love the IDEA of being married. It is possible to marry someone after knowing them for 2 months? Yes. Is it smart? Mehhh...hell no. Me and my bf have been together for 4 years and we aren’t even engaged. Would we love to marry each other? Sure. But we would like all of our ducks in a row before we take that HUGE STEP. (And that’s engagement, THEN marriage) Marriage is a commitment, it’s a job as well. It’s not easy, it’s hard work. (I’ve been married before) You need to take things slow with this new relationship, enjoy each other. Get to know one another. That’s great if you think he’s the one. That’s awesome, but why want to rush it? Just take things slow. I’m sorry your last relationship didn’t work out and good riddance. You should have left the first time he cheated bc he obviously wasn’t looking to settle down with you. Please don’t do this in every relationship you’re in and do not bring it up to your bf this early or any guy you date that early, bc they will run! Like I said get to know him, and enjoy being together as bf/gf for a WHILE

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Just let it flow and fall in love with your partner first, everyone is not like your ex some do want to get married it'll happen when the time is right I know that was one of my goals in life as well and it took time and try not to pressure then into marrying you (not saying you are) it just kinda scares them off but it is good to talk about future goals like is they do eventually want to get married one day just so you know that you guys have simmliar goals.

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When in your life did you stop feeling safe?
Ask yourself that question over and over... go back to childhood.
Then ask yourself when did I learn that marriage is safety?
There’s your answer.
❤️

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I think maybe you're still holding onto that fear from your previous relationship. It's okay to want to watch your back, but obviously make sure you're with the right guy and keep your expectations realistic.

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it sounds like you need to spend a while being single

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Make sure you’re in love with the guy and not just in love with the idea of getting married or you may end up marrying someone that you shouldn’t. ♥️

Can someone tell me what’s wrong with me?

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