I'm overthinking? I'm currently 17weeks pregnant and sad

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Hi , my husband have his bestfriend from his high school  means before me she currently lives in UK but have been here for months so she have called my husband to meet her but alone and he have been meeting her before this one time alone after our marriage i didnt think much that time.. its been 2 yrs we've been married and i have seen him talking to her at phone like hours .. i didnt said anything either but he never talked clearly infront of me ( he have loud voice though) past days i felt quite angry or jealous maybe listening him talking to her at phone when i was around like hmm .. umm... ok .. no .. and talking nicely when i was out of room.. so today also he said i've to go meet her for dinner but alone she said to him she needs privacy to talk i said ok but inside i'm just getting really irritated or angry something like that.. what would you do? I'm i overthinking ? Is it pregnancy hormons.. help
(I dont want to create any issue between us talking about this but should i think about this thing? ) idk what to do
UPDATE -  i asked him why you going alone to met her ? He replied coz i'm pregnant and i shouldnt walk to much like that 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Why the fuck do they need to be alone? No you’re not overthinking. He’s married to you, your his wife!!!! You should be involved in their little “friendship”

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It’s a bit hormones but also very strange.  If she’s a good friend of his, there’s really no reason she shouldn’t be introduced to his wife.  It sounds like they have a strong emotional connection which can be a bad thing if you’re getting shut out of it.

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No you are not over thinking it, seems to me there is something much more going on than a simple friendship, you need to let him know this cannot go on, if she needs to speak to him so much in private something is being hidden, why can’t she come over and speak to him in front of you? What are they hiding.

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Nope. I'd invite myself be like "nah I'm going with you" and if he doesn't let you follow his damn ass. Pregnant or not you can walk still 😒 unless medically advised not to.

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I would tell her to fuck herself and that's my husband and it's not a choice to meet him alone. this is a fishy situation that you shouldn't be putting up with especially being pregnant! fuck that bitch and set your hubby straight before he looses you and his child 💖

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Yea I would not be okay with this. I’m all for people having friendships with people of the opposite sex but there is no reason they always need to be alone or you aren’t invited. If there is nothing to hide you should have a relationship with her too if she is that close to your husband. Something feels off.

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Has he introduced you two before?

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I only understood like 1/4 of this. 
Why is your guy talking to your friend at all?

I'm overthinking? I'm currently 17weeks pregnant and sad

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