I’m sick of being obese

I’m so sick of being this way. I really need to get my life on track. I have been so depressed that I don’t even wanna get out of bed anymore. I want a baby so bad. But I can’t seem to stop eating. I cry all the time. Someone please tell me I’m not alone. I feel so alone 😢 I can’t talk to anyone I know about it bc they don’t get it. I’m always the biggest person in the room. Sorry if this is the wrong group to post this in just venting I guess

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Lo

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You aren't alone, I'm the same. I find that even though I want to loose weight I'm not supported at home and loose all motivation to do so. Its not hopeless though, with the right friends and support you will get your happily ever after. 😊

Am

Am • Jul 7, 2019
Yeah my husband keeps saying he wants to help me but he just enables me lol hopefully I can just do it by myself and maybe he will join me in getting healthy too

X

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Even though I'm starting my weight loss journey, I totally understand I've been the same ever since my diagnosis with my weight and smoking, still waiting for the finally motivational push to get me to wuit smoking. You can do if you will it.

X

X • Aug 10, 2019
quit * 😂

Is

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Keto honey! It works amazing. & fast! Was on it for a month lost 15lbs. Got pregnant but unfortunately lost my baby at 9 weeks.

Da

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Honestly I struggled for a long time with binge eating. I've never been obese, but not for lack of trying :( Recently I had to admit to myself that I'm really a problem eater, and that no diet was going to work until I could stop the urge to binge. So I plucked up my courage and went to see a counselor who helped me put together some coping strategies for when I have that unstoppable urge to make myself feel better with food. So, I guess what I'm saying is that if you can afford it, behavioural therapy can be really helpful! The hard part is not feeling like a failure for needing it :/Very best of luck!

Ma

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Watching my 600lbs life helps me. I've got sunflower seeds by me all the time to keep my mouth busy.

Am

Am • Jul 7, 2019
I love watching that show. I need dr now to whip me into shape hahaha

S

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I'm going through the same thing right now. I've lost weight, but need to lose more and my depression is hindering it. I've had 3 miscarriages all back-to-back and want to lose more weight before we try again. Can I send you a private message?

St

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You could speak to your doctor and see if they'll prescribe you a medication that'll help you lose weight. They mostly help you feel less hungry and give you more energy. They aren't going to be miracle changers on their own... but they can help motivate you because you'll start seeing results. Hang in there... you can do it! Maybe find hobbies that help keep your mind off of feelings of depression and that'll keep you from being near food all the time. ❤ I'm sorry you're feeling that way. 😔

St

St • Jul 28, 2019
Good luck! I know the feeling... my husband is skinny and won't eat healthy at ALL, so if I eat with him or near him it's hard because I always want whatever he has... but when I eat like him I gain pounds by the minute! 😩

Am

Am • Jul 28, 2019
Thank you I might actually try that 😊

Ri

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u r not alone dear girl..im obese too..struggling to lose weight..join me in my weight loss journey?

El

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This is me as well. I just had a baby 6 months ago and im 174lbs or more last time i checked and considered obese for being 5'2. I want to lose weight so bad and me and my husband both agreed not to try for another baby until im at a healthy weight. Its so hard to stop eating all the junk i eat. I have horrible control

Am

Am • Jul 7, 2019
That’s considered obese? That’s crazy.