I need advice, ladies, please.

I'm about to cry. Literally tears are building up.

I'm 38 weeks now and my daughter will be here any day.

I am forced to have a roommate because I cant afford my own place yet. My roommate is also a friend and she has a 2 year old.

Now, I live in the basement. I don't spend much time in her area and she doesn't spend much time in mine. This hasn't changed in the 6 months we've lived together.

I had ZERO intention of that changing when my daughter is born!!

Of course I understand the excitement of a new baby.. but I am not okay with what shes thinking will happen.

She seems to think shes going to be spending a ton of time with my daughter cuddling her, shes informed me her 2 year old will be obsessed. I am 100% against this.

I don't mind casual visits. But to spend every day or second with my child? Its not happening. And I DEFINITELY do not want HER child around my daughter. One, the child is not up to date on vaccines, two, she isn't very conscious about germs, on her or her child, and three she has NO control on him so if he throws a fit, he gets what he wants. (Fearing him hurting, kissing, pulling etc on my daughter)

I realise we live together, but that does not give permission to overstep my wishes with my child...

Please, ladies. How can I talk to her nicely about how I don't want her ideas coming to light and how i especially do not want her child near mine?

I have been explicit about not bringing my daughter around anyone for the first 5 weeks until she can be properly vaccinated, i did it with my first born as well.

I don't want my friend to think she and her spawn are exempt because we're friends...

For the record, I'm terrified right now, I'm already going through a lot and this idea scares the hell out of me. Please be nice, I am trying my hardest...