Family keep messing up my sons hair

I spend a good 10 mins on a morning styling and brushing my babies hair and then when we visit family members they go aw isn't it cute then stroke his hair all out if place and then laugh that he looks silly?? Like he looked handsome before so what is the point in doing that?? It's really starting to piss me off bare in mind he's not a kid is a baby so when he's older if they are still doing this they are just gonna keep mocking him now imagine if my son was a girl and I plaited her hair or did nice curls would they mess it up and find it funny?? No so why my boy can't a boy have nice styled hair sorry but I'm pissed