I could use some advice. Please all is welcome

I’m newly in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend in the Air Force. He lives on base in a complete different state from me. Nevada and Florida. He came home to visit his family who lives in the same town as me (we met in high school before he enlisted) and I’ve only see him momentarily once. And I understand family is important and that he doesn’t get to see him often but our relationship started from phone and id like to spend face to face time with him. I’ve asked and tried to make plans but either he won’t respond or says he is busy with family. I’ve offered to come to him but he doesn’t like people knowing where he lives.

It’s just all off putting and there’s so much more I could type but I don’t want this to be super long.