Initiating sex in a relationship

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So my husband and I (married almost a year, been together six years) have sex constantly. His sex drive is very high, he’s horny every day and we’d be having sex 24/7 multiple times a day if it weren’t for me. My sex drive is rather low. I’m 9 times out of ten I’m not in the mood. Sometimes I’m not even sure if I remember what it feels like to be horny (before sex). He complains sometimes that I never initiate sex. And he’s not wrong. I’m not always thinking about sex because I’m not horny like him and I feel bad because sometimes it makes him feel like I’m not attracted to him or like I don’t think he’s sexy. He gets bored because he’s always initiating and I go along. I’m having a hard time changing. I almost feel like I would be more horny if I had LESS sex, instead of sex or hand jobs or blow jobs, etc everyday. Like give me a break so I have time to want it again. You know? I’ve tried explaining that to him but it didn’t help. I don’t know what to do. How do YOU initiate sex? Give me some ideas and/or thoughts on the situation. Thanks!

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