Lost... *longish post*

So I'm almost 10 weeks and I have a 15 month old daughter. My husband and I have been constantly fighting. We had an actually okay night watching a movie but i declined sex. Well i did that and he randomly calls me fat? Like uhm okay, so i proceed to ask him why he said that? He says he's joking then immediately gets defensive. Like why would you tell your pregnant wife that shes fat? So because I got defensive after he started to, he then calls me a liberal cunt? Like wtf.. I'm so over this.. I want to leave but I'm stuck in a scenario where I wouldn't be able to.. I'm a stay at home mom going to school full time with no income all the way up in Alaska while he finishes out his military contract.. I've tried so many times to address the problems we have. I'll admit, I'm not perfect but I always own up to my faults. He's just an insensitive prick about everything..

I'm not sure what I'm looking for in this post but I just wanted to get it out because I literally have no one to talk to...