If (live in) boyfriend of 2yr's mother died, should gf be invited to funeral?

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( i have not been told funeral arrangments and I live with this man. Everything has been hush-hush around me. Our relationship seems great otherwise. We aren't fighting. )

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Or maybe there isn’t a service. Why don’t you just ask him or a family member ?

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Are you the same one that’s upset he didn’t tell you the details of his mother’s death. Don’t make his mother’s death about you hun and let him grieve.

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Maybe he’s busy grieving in his own way so he doesn’t want to talk about it

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Have you asked him if he wants you to go for support? He may just assume that you’re going to be there without having to “be invited” or it may make him feel uncomfortable having you there knowing he will be very emotional.
Ask him what he needs and then support that decision❤️

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It would be weird if they didn’t want you to go, but don’t push him. People deal with loss differently.

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Have you met his mom?

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Usually yes. 
I think some people like smaller funerals with direct family only.

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Even married couples spouses sometimes arent involved in funeral arrangements unless asked. Let them handle it.

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Have you ASKED about the funeral arrangements?
It's up to him whether he wants you there or not. You have to understand that he's grieving and will deal with this his own way. 
It's not about you, don't try to make it that way.

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In my experience, there aren’t invitations to a funeral. Whoever finds out about it can go if they want to.

If (live in) boyfriend of 2yr's mother died, should gf be invited to funeral?

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