My husband went through my phone.

We use straight talk for our phone service, so he went to the store this morning and bought the prepaid cards. When he got home, I was still in bed, so he grabbed my phone to activate the card for me.

He has the password to my phone, no big deal, I have nothing to hide. When I woke up today though, my Facebook messenger app was open in the background. Before I go to bed every night, I close out all of my apps except for my alarm. The only app he needed to activate my phone card is the texting one. They are not next to each other or anything, so it's not like he just accidentally clicked the wrong one. The only thing I can think is he was snooping.

The only thing I use Facebook messenger for is sending funny animal videos back and forth with my husband and making sales on the marketplace, which my husband always knows about because he usually goes with me to the meet up. So I'm not worried about what he saw, but I'm a little bothered he felt the need to look at them.

Should I confront him about it? We have been together for 8 years, trying to get pregnant for 3 years, and married for 2. The fact he felt the need to look at my messages at this stage of our relationship kind of hurts. I haven't even done anything to make him suspicious.

Should I just ignore it, or ask him about it?

*EDIT*

To those if you saying it's not a big deal and I'm reading too much into it, the way I see it is, as soon as you open up someone's phone and start snooping, you are saying you no longer trust them. Any relationship is nothing without trust. My husband's phone does not have a password and I never feel the need to snoop because I trust him.

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