How can I cope or deal with this
On Friday, June 21st my mom and her boyfriend wanted my 4-year-old daughter for the weekend. So I had told them that my fiance and I will talk about it and I will y'all know. So I and my fiance had talked about it and agreed to let her go for the weekend or maybe that night. I had called my mom back and told her that we had agreed to it. They were on the way to our place to get her. So they had come and got her. And talked to us for a few minutes before. After they left me and my fiance were getting for bed my mom text me saying that my daughter was ready to come home. Which was odd for her. Something didn't feel right about it. So I had facetime my daughter she was literally crying like a baby saying that she wanted me and daddy and she wanted to come home. So I had asked her where nana was and she didn't say so I had heard my moms boyfriend and background saying that she was in the bathroom. So I had asked my daughter again. She had said right here. So I had told her to give the phone to nana and let me talk to her. So she did as she was told. I had asked my mom what was going on she had said nothing really. But she had said it quick. I had told her well we are on our way to get her. We were there 20 minutes tops. Right when I had opened the door. My mom's boyfriend had said I didn't do anything to her with a serious look in his face. I was like huh? He didn't make eye contact or anything. I kept asking them what was wrong with her and it's not like for her to cry like that at all when she's with you all or asking for mommy and daddy. They didn't say anything. So I had got my daughter and her stuff and left. The next morning I had asked my daughter what happened she didn't anything at first. So I had asked her did nana do anything she said no. I had asked her did her aunt or uncle do anything she said no. I had asked did papa do anything she had said yes he had hurt my booboo (her private area) I had asked her what did he do she didn't say anything she had got distracted and started talking about something else. Later on that day she had started having accidents on herself and she wouldn't let me change her and she starts crying all over again. So we had taken her to the hospital I had told him what happened. Monday morning we had met with a DCF caseworker and talked to her and answer questions. 3 days later she went to the Children Advocacy Center to get a medical exam and get interviewed by a lady but she wouldn't talk to the lady. Just the other day she had told me that Papa has touched her but she didn't how or anything. Since everything has happened and after that night I haven't heard from my mom at all. Now everything just a waiting gams. I'm at the point of I don't know what to do or how to deal with everything that's going on. I have cried in the shower I have cried myself to sleep. Friday morning she's going to see a therapist.
UPDATE: My daughter has been going to therapy just last Friday she had her first session on who does she trust and she had drawn a picture of me and her dad and a house. I was so happy that I had started crying in front of the therapist. I will start going to therapy here soon. With everything that has been going on. I also found out that never questioned my mom and stepfather. They didn't anything they just want her to continue to go to therapy.
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