Yesterday I had a minor outpatient surgery, but it resulted in a lot if stitches and it is in a sensitive area, so it’s relatively painful. My SO took off from work today to help me with our 4 month old daughter...or so I thought.

He has been building furniture for the office all day. Hasn’t offered to help. He just keeps saying how I need to clean the foyer and I need to clean under the kitchen sink. I literally can’t even bend over. 🤦‍♀️ I am exhausted and just want a nap. Or maybe he could offer to take care of our daughter for a bit.

I admire his work ethic, but it feels like he took the day off to finish his projects, but disguised it as helping me?

I can’t talk to him about it because he will just say how stressed he is and how he has to get all of this work done before he leaves for Florida (a vacation for himself, as we are not invited).

I feel like I am being a jerk, but I am in a lot of pain and I am really annoyed. 😞