Hey y’all!

I’m 36w today & I have a concern about my ability to breast feed. I have an 11 year old so it’s been a long time since I’ve been pregnant but I remember this late in my last pregnancy having enlarged rock hard breasts leading up to labor. They felt so full and so sensitive. This time around, I had extreme tenderness and swelling during my first trimester but then they seemed to shrink back to normal. I haven’t had any signs of leaking, sensitivity, growth, or that my body is getting ready to produce milk and I’m starting to get worried. Anyone experience this before? I’ve had other signs labor is nearing and I know typically milk doesn’t come in until after the baby is born but I just don’t know if I should be doing anything to help the process along before our little guy comes... Thanks in advance for any advice!