Sooo my sister in law had her baby a few months before I had my baby. She has given some handme down stuff and of course I'm grateful BUT she feels the need to say it was her kids 1st Every. Single. Chance. She gets!!! Its driving me insane!! I cant talk about my baby without her saying her kid did it 1st!!! Of course her baby did it 1st, was born 1st!! I dont like putting my baby in the handme down clothes she passed down because that's all we'll hear.

Shots, weight, height, rolling, giggles...literally EVERYTHING she makes it feel like a competition. I've never met anyone soooo idk the words but its gettin so annoying to the point where I dont even want to be around them anymore.

Around other family she doesnt like my kid having too much attention and needs to throw her kid in the mix of whatever convo is going on. Like shes afraid her kid will be forgotten if we're talking about our baby.

When she comes over she wants to put my baby in the handme downs ASAP and compare how her kid was bigger or some shit. My bf wont say anything because shes a ticking time bomb and takes everything to heart and will blow it out of proportion and drag it out...I dont know if I want to say something and put up with her childish pettiness for awhile or continue hearing how my baby is 2nd in everything.