Gotta vent

I’m so frustrated in my relationship. We’ve been together for over a year and one of the reasons I fell in love with him was because he was so caring and selfless. Now, I feel like that has gone away.

He will often just tell me to “feel better” when I am having a bad day (I struggle with depression) and either go to sleep or go do something else. In the past he would talk to me until I felt better, now he never does... He also almost never texts me, he’ll go multiple days a week without texting me at all which is difficult because we don’t live together so texting is all we have. We see each other so much less and every time I raise concerns about it he just says it’s okay and I should be happy anyways. I feel like he cares so much less about me now, maybe he’s just more comfortable with me or less scared that I’ll leave him, but it hurts. I talked to my best friend who is also one of his good friends and he says he has noticed these changes too. He said he would come over today and we’d talk about it, I asked for how long he could stay over and he said “as long as I need to for you to feel better.” I was so happy because I felt like his old self was coming back. but then, he decided he wanted to go to an event with his friends and said we’d only have an hour together. I was upset by this, so he told me “feel better” and left for the event. I texted him about all my feelings and about how I don’t feel happy in the relationship anymore but I got no response, probably won’t until late at night.