A friend like Casper...

Hi ladies

I became close with a coworker Jane, I would be invited to her house and do girl things. Fast forward, we had a mutual work friend Sally, who lives closer to her. Sally was not close to my friend in the beginning but said something once that made me raise my eyebrow. She said she didnt like two friends that got close and tried to break them up, felt left out.

Well...one time I made the mistake of voicing my opinion on a coworker who Jane disliked. Sally didn't like the person either. Jane would give Sally lifts home, soon I wasn't invited to Jane's house much, phone calls were less. I did tell Jane my thoughts, nothing was done, said we were still friends. They now do alot of things together, at first they were hiding it. Ironically Jane complained to me once how a friend abruptly left her friendship and she was hurt...when I made the similarities, she denied it was happening.

Jane only calls me now to talk about her new boyfriend, if things are wrong (not sure why she doesn't turn to bestie Sally), or to ask me how I am doing if she doesn't hear from me after awhile. I also find her abit stuck up, and makes me feel like she is better than me.

Am I being bothered by nothing? What would you do? Just ghost the friendship or ignore and concentrate on my other circle of friends?