bf is hurting my feelings

lately my bf has just been acting like he doesn’t want to talk to me and it hurts. we are long distance and I visited him last week but ever since I got home he’s been really distant. we didn’t fight when I visited him and we had a really great time. last night I asked him if we could ft tomorrow and he said yes and then he facetimed me today and said “you said you wanted to talk so im calling you” and I said “I just feel like I haven’t seen you in a while even tho I literally just saw you last week” and he didn’t say ANYTHING he just made a weird face like “wtf” or something and it hurt my feelings. anyways we talked for 8 minutes and then I let him go bc he said he wanted to listen to music.

I just want to say I am NOT clingy and I never have been. I understand he has a separate life and works and has friends. I am just asking for him to make a little bit of time for me (and i don’t think that’s unreasonable cause i’m his girlfriend.... correct me if i’m wrong) and try to make me feel special because that’s what I do for him. He doesn’t say good morning or goodnight or anything, if you saw the snapchats he sends me you probably wouldn’t even know we were a couple. I asked him what’s wrong and mentioned he was acting different and he said “i’m fine” and then continued barely speaking to me.

Do I just give him the same energy back and let him come back around to me? any advice would seriously be great. i’m terrified of losing him bc the good outweighs the bad, but the bad really hurts. especially right now.

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