I feel like the only one

I feel like I’m the only mom who deals with a toddler who doesn’t listen. A toddler that I literally can not take anywhere because there will be too much of a tantrum and I will just end up leaving anyway so what’s the point. I feel like I’m the only one who has a toddler that you tell them something a million times and still do the complete Opposite Day in and day out. I’m tired I’m annoyed and I’m at my wits end on what to do with this toddler that I feel like I can’t control. I feel like everyday it just gets worse and worse with him running the house. I just don’t know what to do 😭😩😔😴