At my last appointment I was nearly 3 cm and 75% effaced. I know it doesn’t mean much because I was at a 4 for 3 weeks with my first and went to 41 weeks. I just hope the cramps I’m feeling are contractions and that my water breaks soon so I can have a baby because as much as I love being the only one with him 24/7, I want to share him with my husband and his big brother 😭