How do you guys manage to have a newborn and doing housework, finding time to eat and shower ? Usually when I get help I want to sleep. I'm having trouble with my spouse because he didn't get paternity leave and he works the graveyard shift. So it's difficult for us to get good sleep. Usually I ask him for a favor or two before he goes to sleep. And we do get help from his family. But latley my spouse has been so upset with me because we need to get more housework done. And I agreed. So we made a list and when family comes over. I do one thing and get my rest. But yesterday he got mad at me for not cleaning the grease on the stove after I made him breakfast. Honestly I didnt notice because I was in a rush to eat and feed my baby. Today I was going to clean the kitchen. He got mad because I didn't clean the grease. I explained that my son needs a lot of attention at night and honestly I wasn't thinking about that as my main priority. He told me I could have done it, that it doesn't take much time. I understand where he is coming from but sometimes it's not on my mind or I dont remember. I try my best but latley we have been clashing. And sometimes it's over small things. I'm not sure what to do or how to manage doing everything and remembering little details.