I’m moving in with my boyfriend soon and I have some lingerie. I don’t know if that’s weird? He’s seen me in some. But I’m not sure what to wear at night. Sometimes I have shirt and panties. I don’t have anything sexy or attractive I’d want him to see me in that are “PJs”. My parents refuse to let me get rid of anything if it still fits, and I’ve been the same size since 4th grade. So I have some stuff that fits that’s kids (no he doesn’t need to see that). And they also say I don’t need to buy anything new if I already have stuff that fits. Yes I’m on my own but I do tend to just wear things out and save my money for other stuff. So yes I have PJ bottoms from The Children’s Place. And I don’t know all that much about lingerie. Advice?

Not for every night. He likes when I wear his large shirts and stuff. And I have comfy sleep shorts I wear from Target I’ve splurged on. And those are fine. Or sweatpants. But how does sometimes wanting to spice things up and look sexy and wear something sexy like teddy or something work? That’s not weird is it to sometimes surprise in that or is it? If you don’t normally. I am just always for trying new things and making sure things don’t get too comfortable or the same or boring like you hear they can. I guess I just feel like I should do a mixture of the two so it’s not so weird if I suddenly wear a teddy or something. If that makes any sense. And then I’m not sure where to get that kind of stuff. VS is expensive and basic and normally not best quality.

Yes I’m naive for 25