What should I do

Question

I recently got back from a month long trip away from my boyfriend and we were talking about having sex a few times while I was there. If I teased him he would get hard very quickly and jokingly saying how he wished he could share it with me. Now that I’m back and we’ve been trying to have sex, he can’t get hard. This has happened twice already and happened once before I left. I know that he feels bad but I don’t know what I should say to him or what I should do.

Answer

He could just be self conscious about wanting to do well and is scared that he will disappoint you. Just take time to work with him on it! You could try different things and assuring him everything is still okay. 
One thing you could try is having him close his eyes while you kiss him all over his body! This will allow him to focus more on the feeling and may help him get hard!

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I’ve never had this problem, I mean I took a 3 month break away from my partner to give us time and space and make sure we wouldn’t have any regrets and weren’t trying to rush into things: I’ve been with him 5yrs now. 
But the minute we saw each other again at the local gas station it was like nothing had changed I was still head over heels for him and when I hugged him he was definitely hard. (I’m 4’11 and he’s 6’7 so I was able to tell with his penis poking my mid section) We had sex 2 days later when he invited me over to talk about things, no talking really happened just a lot of sex and cuddling in his arms as he played with my hair and I ran my fingers along his skin. 
I’ve found that when we’re apart though, him at work or vis versa that sexting is a great way to get him in the mood. 
I don’t know how many times we’ve sexted back and forth and the minute he’d pick me up from work he’d be making out with me and undoing my bra fondling me and the next thing I know I’m craving his body as he fingers me on the car ride home. 
Or even when I go to the grocery store, I’ll send him dirty messages and I’ve come home and come inside to ask him for help to bring in the groceries and he’ll pick me up and put me on the table and eat me out and as I’m loving it begging him to stop and help with the groceries he’ll tell me no because I did this to him as he pulls out his hard dick and we just do it right there on the kitchen table. 
Another thing that’s been helped him get a instant bones no joke when I say instant, is when I just get ontop of him and make out with him. I’ll make out with him as I grind my hips on his lap and when he says not right now, I always say but I need it now as I slip one of his hands onto my boob and and kiss him from his neck to his ear and just nibble his ear and whisper into it how badly I need him while I still grind on him lightly and with one hand play with his hair and the other guide his hand along my nipple as it hardens.
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