Vaginal or C-Section VBAC??

So I’m currently 9 weeks and some days , this is my second baby , I had to have a c section my first time not because I didn’t dilate , or because I couldn’t push or any reason , my Ob was NO WHERE to be found , I was pushing with just nurses (who I’m positive that they know what they’re doing) I pushed for about 30 mins and the nurse told my husband, mom , sister & MIL , to peak in my vagina because my sons head was almost out (mind you the nurses turned off my epidural because he was almost out) , and my ob was still no where to be found . He apparently he came in said “is she ready (as if I was a Mac n cheese in the microwave“ the nurses said almost and he left . I pushed a couple of more times and he walked in sat down and peaked in my vagina , touched my leg and said “you’re feeling kind of warm & it looks like the baby decided to turn his head a tiny bit” he didn’t try NOTHING else to try and turn him , absolutely nothing I was in tears . They threw me into surgery , and forgot to turn on my epidural back on , it was to late to get a spinal before anyone says anything . So I had my ENTIRE c section AWAKE , I was screaming my lungs out!!! And the jerk still said “ are you crying or laughing” worst experience EVER!!!! and I had a tiny baby 6lbs 4oz!!! I could’ve easily pushed him out or atleast tried with any other way , so my question is my first son is currently 18 months . And I want to try VBAC so my kids will literally be 2 years and 2 months apart , is it worth trying for a vaginal? Due to it being so early and getting pregnant ?? I’ve heard the worst of stories like “the baby can try and come out through you c section , and my own sister, her baby ruptured her Uterus!!