I honestly just need to vent somewhere. Advice would be appreciated, but I don’t really know if anyone would be able to help🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m 17 and I live with my dad, step mom, my sister every other week, and my step sister is home from college. The first issue I have is that my step sister likes to go through my things and has even stolen things from me in the past before she moved away for college. As I stated she’s home for the summer and has came in my room and wasted a face mask of mine on a paper towel for some reason and uses my personal shower items. She’s also rummaged through my belongings a few times throughout the summer. The next issue is the biggest and it’s with my step mother. She doesn’t do SHIT. This week she cooked dinner and cleaned the pile of dishes one time. I always end up having to wash the dishes every day so they don’t pile up and our house doesn’t smell like rotting food. She doesn’t grocery shop and when she does she literally only buys 3 boxes of snack cases and 2 bottles of juice I kid you not. Every Friday she will ask me to go to the grocery store to grocery shop, which I did today. I feel like the mother and adult of this house yet I’m not allowed to do anything for myself. My car has been broke all summer so we all had to switch around cars so I could use one for work, I’m a courier so I have to have a car. Well I’m using her car, an older Toyota Camry, and whenever I want to go see my family that lives a little less than an hour away there is always something wrong with her car or it’s raining and I can’t drive in it. Yet her daughter, my step sister, who was given her 2017 Malibu can go to her abusive boyfriends house an hour away to spend the night for 4 days every week. I also LOVE candles. I have hundreds in my room and like I said I’m 17, so I’m legally not old enough to but lighters for myself so I have to get my boyfriend to buy them for me. Well I only have one because I only need one and this crackhead is always taking my damn lighter to light her cigarettes. I asked for it back today after her having it for a month and not even 5 minutes later she came in here trying to trade me for a grill lighter. I said no thanks, I got this one because it’s small and I can set it on top my candle so I don’t lose it and not take up much space and then she’s like oh well then can I use it I’ll bring it back so I’m like sure here you go. Never got my damn lighter back. At this point she is pissing me off and I want to cuss her out. If I talk to my dad about it he will take her side like always and if I’m rude to her and let her know how I really feel she will cry. I can’t wait until I’m 18 and can fucking move out. I hate this whole step family shit and liked it so much better when it was just my dad and sister.