My spouse wakes me up at night touching me and stuff that’s fine with me but he then turns around and falls a sleep , sometimes right before I call out his name. And then in the morning I will communicate to him about this and he will say “I don’t remember anything”. He will remember only when we had sex in the middle of the night and that’s when he wakes me up touching me too the. I will say last night,, and he is like “yea you started it” (I must mention ; he hardly starts sex when he is awake, I usually start

But wearing something or by kissing him...)

Anyway I need to vent and really feel confused bcs he will touch me then turn around go back to sleep without finishing me: there was night he even grabbed my breast with a full on hand 🤚🏻 but I have small breast and like ... I don’t think he found a lot to grab so he also turned around and went to sleep... maybe he is dreaming ... without saying that he talks in sleeps too the other night he said “are you getting married “ I woke him up and he said “let me sleep and that he didn’t say anything “... I know we should communicate but his personality is jokes about things or I don’t remember or you started or it’s all in your head