Would it be wrong if I didn’t tell my baby daddy the day I’m delivering our daughter?

I’m having a c section and well I told him about a month ago when we last spoke when it would be the date and he said he wanted to be there the only problem I have is one I don’t believe it for shit

Two the whole entire pregnancy he was not there for me once.. he has no obligation as to we aren’t together and or married.

But he’s made no effort to even ask any questions and seem remotely interested in her so this leaves me to just believe he does not care at all which is most likely true and it would take only actions to prove my mind otherwise.

The last time we spoke was a month ago I told him I was tired of giving him chances, he left me on read and I left it at that.

Since then I’ve deleted my Instagram as well as stopped posting on Snapchat

Haven’t text and or called him and decided I was going to enjoy my pregnancy stress free and happy

The first four months of my pregnancy well technically five or up until by law I was not able to abort my daughter he would harass me everyday about having an abortion

Which every time I would decline for my own beliefs and personal reasons.

Then at the time I couldn’t abort anymore he apologizes to me saying” I’m sorry I want to be apart of her life” “ I’ll do what it takes”

I’ll help where and when I can when it comes to our daughter..

for a moment I was happy he was finally on board with me., the fighting and constant arguing as well as stress and crying every night was tiring I was like finally some relief

Well his words grew cold and meaningless when I realized the only difference this time was he just stopped telling me to abort our daughter

He lied and lied. Telling me he works all the time and couldn’t do this, and that

Okay fine.. I’m not mad you’re working of course only thing is he was going on dates, partying, clubbing, screwing other girls

That’s fine he’s not my boyfriend.

(Back story on this part though for those of you wondering we were seeing each other for 8 months and then I ended up getting pregnant

And by seeing each other I mean dating but nothing serious with a hot steamy sex life

That came to a drastic halt after I became pregnant)( he did however promise me a relationship with him if I got an abortion .. he was so set on how we would thrive together.. I didn’t fall for this.. because that was a lie too)

But what’s not fine was being lied to..

and that’s when I had it only this time I said my peace and stopped all communication as well as social media.. as far as he was concerned which he was not.. I was dead

She will be here in months.. starting my third trimester I’ve grown cold, almost numb to all of what’s happened to me, and honestly it kinda looks like I’m worn out physically in my face I’ve never had dark circles and or bags under my eyes till all this bullshit.. idk could be the pregnancy too.

Anyway my question is if he never reaches out because I sure as hell won’t first

Would it be wrong of me not to tell him the due date and when I’m going to the hospital to deliver our child? Because I feel like if he truly wanted to be there he will take action to ask me .. knowing I’m only a phone call away and we aren’t children.. he’s 31 I guess you could say he’s a man child

I’m so numb his presence at this point I don’t think would make a difference anyhow 🤷🏻‍♀️