Not normal sex?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple months. I just left a relationship that was 2/12 years a couple months ago. I have always been comfy with sex but have been told I don’t get as wet as other girls. It’s weird cause I’m a very sexual person and I love pleasing my man but I don’t like foreplay on me. And every guy I have been with has always tried to make me cum and I never can. Idk what’s wrong with me. Anyone have any tips besides masturbating? And I was wondering how long it takes y’all to cum and how easy is it for normal chicks to get wet?