Am I the only one?

Marisol

Is it weird that I’m not feeling the same in my 2 almost 3 year relationship? He’s cheated on me many, many times and I forgave him every time. He’s never physically cheated but he has messaged other women saying how pretty they are and that he’s single. We live together, I love him I really do, but in my eyes it feels like he’s less affectionate. Our sex life is literally the best, but he doesn’t complement me anymore. I know I don’t get ready like I used to, should I spice it up? Like put on something sexy and put on makeup? Or is it just the lack of trust I have towards him? I’ve been feeling super insecure because I notice all the beautiful women he’s talked to and complemented. Sometimes it sucks being a woman because we have to look a certain way and do certain things. Has anyone felt this way too? I know I need to talk to him, but I myself don’t know how to explain it.