Sex, foreplay, & orgasms
I’m am writing this to see what your input on this topic is and how to handle it.
I’ve been dating my current boyfriend for a few months, and we have sex quite often. Typically pretty good, but rarely involves foreplay (such as fingering or going down on me). I usually go down on him, and we make out, but not visa versa. This irritates the crap out of me. When we do have sex, I don’t orgasm (because I cannot just orgasm vaginally). I have attempted to use my clit vibrator once during sex, and he just laughed, making me feel too uncomfortable to try again.
All of this being said, how should I go about taking to him about this? He’s an amazing boyfriend, just lacking in that department. I don’t feel like I need to orgasm every time, but obviously more often would be great.
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