Beyond frustrated!!!!

So we had planned to have our daughters a party which i didn’t want to have because I thought they had more fun going out to the fair and spoiling them they turned 2 and 3,but of course my husband said come on I’ll do most of the work I’m currently pregnant and have had some spotting so I want to take it easy,literally the day before we have everything he tells me let’s not make a party let’s go to the fair so of course I got upset since we bought everything invited people and now no because he decided he prefer the fair! They he calls me today saying let’s go to the fair and have the party I say it’s not possible I can’t make a cake and set up the party in a day and go to the fair it’s too much for me, so we agreed to just cancel the party and go to the fair I tell my mom and we say okay family can meet us in the fair if they wish to now he calls me again saying I want to party and the fair and I say what I thought we agreed and I got upset and say make up your mind already this isn’t something to change your mind all the time I already called my mom and she’s telling my family you tell yours,and because I said the f word he saying I’m being hormonic and pregnant and to calm my tantrum down like I can’t talk to him at all anymore I don’t know I’m gonna ignore him!