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I need some advice!
I’m 25 weeks, FTM with an anterior placenta (I hardly feel baby move now so I’m so scared something is wrong). I miscarried in January of this year and since then I’m completely HORRIFIED to tell anyone besides family about my pregnancy. Has anyone else been through this? How do you get through the fear that something will go wrong? I haven’t even prepared in the slightest for this baby due to the fear. 
I want to announce my pregnancy... but I stop myself every time. Completely horrified first time momma 😩😪

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I’m 17 weeks with my second.  I didn’t have any issues with the first although I’m literally petrified and idk why.   My sister tried taking me baby shopping but I’m having a really hard time trying to prepare thinking that something could go wrong. I’ve read a lot of things so think I’ve just scared my self completely.   Sounds like you def have an actual reason to be so worried tho 🙁.  Just told myself I need to try to live one day at a time and just pray everything will be ok

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My SIL is a week behind me and she hardly ever feels her girl. 
I feel like a punching bag though. Getting induced at 36 weeks due to choleostasis and I. Am. Pumped.

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Its normal to feel this way regardless if you had a loss or not you just are scared you’re a mama now and being worried and scared is part of the job. I had an anterior placenta and it was until almost 30 weeks that i was really able to feel his movements and the further I got the stronger he got the more I felt so it’ll happen. I lost a baby before my first son so I know how you feel. You don’t have to tell everyone you’re pregnant I didn’t a lot of people had no clue until I gave birth my favorite was I had no clue you were pregnant again. If you ever have any worries about movement however you should always just bring it up to your doctor no matter what. I wish I could say the worry goes away but sadly it doesn’t you worry til the end you just want a healthy little baby then you have them and then it’s a new set of worry and concern. I say don’t worry yourself with telling others enjoy this time mama your baby will be here before you know then you’ll be celebrating a 1st birthday. I still can believe my first is 3 and my newest little boy will be 2 months old next week. I promise it’ll all be ok.

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