DUMBEST thing someone has said???

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What is the dumbest, meanest or most unhelpful thing someone has said to you in your grieving process??
Here's mine so far:
"I've never been through that...I know it's because GOD knows I couldn't handle it, I've always known first and foremost in my life that being a mother was my biggest priority and everything else comes secondary."
Um are you SERIOUS RIGHT NOW?? Me too bitch. ME TOO.

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“Better luck next time!” 
“Everything happens for a reason” 
“Well, at least you know you can get pregnant” 
This was after I miscarried at 10 weeks.

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Well my dads brother said " that's sad news but it's probably for the better your in way ready for a child. To Support emotionally or financially. You have to think about these things." Like wth lol

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My son was stillborn and I called my sister's mom to tell her and ask if she wanted to see a picture of him. This bitch literally starts screming at me saying, "EWW. NO. WHAT THE FUCK. NO. YOU DON'T ASK PEOPLE THAT!!" This all happened an hour after I had him. 
I honestly thought she would want to see him. My family and 2 bestfriends all held him, so I seen nothing wrong with it. I have no problem with people not wanting to see him, I do have a problem with them saying things like that. 
I've also had multiple people around where I live get told that I had a baby, but never told I lost him. Most ask for a picture and when I tell them he was stillborn and ask if they still want to see a picture, they freak out and act like I asked them to commit a crime or something.

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"Are you ok?"
I took my daughter swimming May 29th.
She drown and I had to make the toughest decision of my life. 
I decided to remove her from life support.
Alexis just turned 13 on April 20th.
By far that is the hardest thing I've had to hear.

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When I found out that I'm pregnant again and told my oldest childhood friend she said something along the lines of "Oh great 🙄 You know I know nothing about being pregnant and I don't plan on being around this time if you get "all dramatic" when you lose this one too."
I haven't spoken to her since.

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After my third loss: "Maybe you aren't supposed to be a mother"
Had rainbow daughter
After  another miscarriage: " I guess Go decided she doesn't need a sibling" .... "Maybe you should change your lifestyle because obviously God is punishing you"
I had four more losses (never announced them) 
Had another rainbow daughter
Had 5 more loss "you are too heavy, this is your bodies way of saying to lose weight and get into shape", "I feel bad for your husband that he can't have a normal child bearing wife", "what have you done in your past to be punished like this" 
I am now pregnant with my rainbow boy and haven't announced. Family who have seen me know others have no idea. 
Some people are just super cruel and insensitive

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My daughter was stillborn, died in utero then I was induced and gave birth to her. I heard...
‘Everything happens for a reason’ 
and 
‘ at least it happened now (June) so you can enjoy your summer off’. 
WTF.

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I have 4 healthy children and lost my 5th at 20 weeks, I’ve heard 
“Your young you can try again”
“At least the baby wasn’t full term”
“At least you have kids”
“You’ll get it next time”
“You weren’t grateful enough, so god took it away”
Every week seems to be a new one, and it just happened two weeks ago ☹️

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My boyfriends father (who has stolen money from us, wasn’t around when my boyfriend was a child, just not a good person in general) to us that it was “good” that I miscarried. I haven’t spoken to him since. I wasn’t a fan of him before but I honestly couldn’t even believe he stooped that low. I can’t for the life of me understand why my boyfriend even still talks to him. I’m 20 weeks now and I’ve done everything in my power to make sure his dad knows nothing about this baby, but my boyfriend does otherwise against my wishes.

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I lost my twins at 18 weeks, and they worst thing someone said was that "well, you're in school, maybe this is better."

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