Would it be bad to tell my husband I sometimes wish I had kids with someone else?

I'm at the end of my rope. Since having our son I feel like I've changed a lot for the better and he's gone backwards.

Once he gets home it's beer and video games. This is every single night. I cook a nice meal and he orders pizza and eats it in front of the tv while my toddler and I eat at the table. He makes a mess and tells me moms are the ones that clean up. I ask for help with my son, he complains or invites friends over and says he's too busy.

I love him and he wasn't always like this. This is not how I pictured our family. I don't want my son seeing his dad drink every day (he's 2 and has even asked to drink beer like daddy) or think women are required to do everything. I want to tell him how I really feel but idk if it's too mean...