Should I be upset?

Question

So I’m 19 years old with a 10 month old and my boyfriend is 20. Since we’ve had our son my boyfriend has hung out with his friends 3 times all day long. Tomorrow he’s going out shooting and his going to be gone all day long. I haven’t had a fun night since my son was born. I’m at the point of crying because I’m going to be home alone AGAIN ALONE. I just to go out and have fun myself. I’m an at home mom and I go to school when I can.

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No. You should not be upset. He needs time to spend with friends and 4 times in 10 months is not him asking for a whole lot. In fact, my husband sees his friends once a week. As i do mine. It gives us each one on one time with our vhild. 
You need your time to go out too. Just make the plans and let him know. Spend a day with your friends. You BOTH deserve "me time"

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have you TOLD him you wanna go out for a night? him going out three times in 10 months is NOTHING and you definitely shouldn’t be upset about that unless he won’t let you leave the house

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Relationships and parenting are all about compromise. It’s not a healthy mind set for you to think he should never spend a day with his friends again, all because he’s a dad. That’s not right, not fair and not healthy. That being said, you BOTH need time with friends, next time speak up and take your turn girl. It’s so important to keep a social life even though you have kids. If my husband expected me to stay home constantly and never do anything, I would lose my mind. We take turns doing things we enjoy, whether that be social or a spa day for me...could be social or maybe a sporting event for him. We also like to find time to do dates together occasionally! Your life doesn’t have to stop just because you have kids.

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3 times in 10 months isn’t bad. My boyfriend has gone out way more than that,  is at work all day long, and i take my son to my moms and my bf stays home for the night. If you’re wanting to go out why don’t you just ask him if he can stay home with the baby while you hangout with some friends for a few hours? You deserve time with your friends too, but so does your bf.

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3 times in ten months isn’t much. If he’s not letting you go out that’s a whole different issue. Get someone (or him) to stay with baby so you can go out soon too

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3 times in 10 months isnt bad at all. He needs time with friends and time for himself. Why cant you go out? He cant stay home with the baby for an evening? Have a family member babysit? I dont see anything wrong with him going out a few times at all.

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Have someone watch the child and you go out.

Should I be upset?

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