What to do

I can’t do it I’ve a 4 month old daughter and her father does absolutely nothing to help out he hasn’t help pay for anything doesn’t even pick her when she cry’s all we do is argue he stresses me out his family are a pain he gives out that I don’t like them coming over when they literally don’t have any respect for how I wanna raise my daughter they think she’s a preforming monkey all they do is video and that photos of her I just need to vent and scream or something need some one to talk to cause all every one says is break up but I don’t trust him with sheared custody I can’t imagine my poor baby cry and him not calming her down so I’m literally staying with him cause I can’t cope with the tought of him trying to look after her alone he’s hopeless 😭