First month TTC was a fail

My husband warned me that it doesn’t always happen right away. I was just so hopeful bc I did everything I could do to give us our best first shot. I have been taking prenatal vitamins the last 2 months, I eat healthy and organic, I cut out my second cup of coffee in the evenings, worked out, cut out alcohol, used OPKs to confirm ovulation and even used preseed and legs up after BD. Sure enough AF showed her ugly face this morning. My lesson is to try and relax and it will happen on Gods time. Maybe this cycle we were too stressed overthinking and trying to get it right. For our second cycle I’m stopping the OPKs and just going to use the app to track since it was only a day off anyway and I can feel when I ovulate. I’m gonna also try and make it less of a chore and try and make it feel more natural. I won’t test until day of AF since seeing all those negatives was even more disappointing. Please God let September be our month. I’m ready to be a mommy 🙏